Ain't it funny how you can look back on your life and reflect on certain relationships and just laugh about it now.
We have all had times in our lives when we thought we wouldn't make it with or without certain ppl in our lives...but look at US now.. Still Here..Still Making It!!! When I look back at some of the things I did in the name of Love...I get a real good laugh. Some of the stuff I did and put up with..SMDH...what was I thinking??? So glad I have come into my own, where my life is solely dependent on my maker and myself. Sometimes we give the power to be happy away to easily... and sometimes the ones we give it to is no more worthy of themselves. So how can they be worthy of YOU??? For me those have been lessons learned, even now when I think back I realize I honestly didn't love myself enough cause if I did I would have never put up with some of the situations that I did. But today is a different story.I LOVE ME..and I know what I want and I will not have it any other way. Call it what you want. But I call it...Worthy & Deserving!!! The days of just settling is gone...I'm a grown woman so I don't need a boy to a grown man's job. Just Sayin!!! I don't ask for much...How bout unconditional love, honesty,respect and a little support whether it be financially or emotionally, and last but not least mean what you say..either through your actions or your words. But to some men that's asking way too much.With women its different...we love hard and will go to hell and back for a man that we love. Even when He has done us wrong...we still there...trying to make it work. Don't understand men...I guess they don't understand us either..lol But If I tell you up front what I'm looking for in a man and if you can't handle the qualifications then...Lets just keep it on a friends only level...shouldn't we be friends first anyways???? Ladies we need to stop compromising on our list of qualifications on the kind of Man that we want, the Men are not compromising and neither should we.I know there's alot of good men out there waiting to be found.But in the meantime....Know your worth Ladies and you'll never settle for B.S. Remember we are God's gift to man and not the other way around. Real Talk....From Mari!!!!
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