Recently someone asked me this questions..."What are you really looking for in a man? After carefully thinking I answered with a little reluctance...I gave him my perspective to the question...“A real man is faithful,loving,romantic,honest,open and takes your feelings into consideration,says what he means and means what he says and take care of his responsibilities. All he could say was OK.. Guess he couldn't live up to that..that's were you separate the boys from the men..But as I began to think...for once I'm not "looking" for a man. Don't get me wrong I do want someone to share by life with but right now I'm not trying to find someone..he's going to have to find to me and put in some afford..I think I'm worth that much. I think we shouldn't be looking for a man. We should be asking God to bring one to us. One of His choosing and wait on God's timing. I think the hardest part is the waiting. But if we wait on God, He will lead us to the man we are suppose to be with. The trouble comes when we try to run ahead of God and then we get into relationships we have no business of getting in (been there done that). Every man you meet is not relationship material..just lessons learned..I've come to the conclusion..why I'm asking God to send me a man..I have to be ready to receive him when he comes. We have to let go of some old things..(ex's, baby daddy's, booty calls,etc..u know what i mean) in order for God to send something new our way. I have come to understand that when God is ready He will bring Him to me. I still need work on myself and I know I cant be asking God for someone that I'm not. But I'm getting there. We as women need to learn to love ourselves more, and let go of all the hurt and pain of the past, before even trying to be with someone else. When you love yourself it will be easy for you to love that man completely without doubt. I will continue to be patience and wait for the man for me, there will be no mistaking him when he shows up. But for right now I will continue to be happy regardless if I'm single or in a relationship and will keep enjoying my life as it is. Stay Positive & Keep Smiling!
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AuthorMARI BRITTON FLOOD- Archives
May 2019
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